You’re more focused on the mile than you are on the inch that is why you are losing the race
As a guy, Ever had sex?!
And just given the tip?!
Repeatedly stroking just the tip
In and out
Slowly
Rhythmically
Finding every angle.
Every corner.
Every sweet spot
In Kyokushin karate, there’s something called Ichigeki: the one strike technique
Martial artists train their entire lives to master this one-strike technique. To be able to completely incapacitate your opponent with a single strike, ending the battle mere moments after it began
Most of us in this life is losing the race not because we do not have the stamina, not because we do not have the technique, not because we do not have the will or the desire but because we do not have the ichigeki
We do not have Bruce lee’s two-finger pushup and sadly, we do not even realize that the reason we do not have that is that we do not acknowledge the journey that led to that ability in the first place
The inches
The simple small steps
The constancy
“Even a limping man goes not backward” Khalil Gibran, The Prophet
Everyone remembers roger banister for the sub-4-minute mile but no one even speaks of the decades of training that proceeded it
Every motivational speaker, every pioneer, every revolutionist, every inventor has a journey behind them
The results tell the story of the journey, of the failures, the mistakes, the pitfalls, the achievements, the losses, the sacrifices
But like any breakout solo artist, they cajole, twist, and manipulate the story of the group, the true beginnings, the failures, the fuckups, the mistakes
But there are no results without the journey and there is no journey without the small simple steps
The inch…